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  • Halle-fuckin-lujah! I've Discovered the Cure for Vodka Vaj. Halle-fuckin-lujah! I've Discovered the Cure for Vodka Vaj.

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    Couple kissing and engaging in foreplay

    I did it again. Last night I went tequila tasting with my husband and got pretty buzzed. The room was rocking. My chest was warm. And I felt frisky.

    It’s a cruel irony, really. I get so horny when I’m tipsy. I bombard my man with kisses. Caress every inch of his body, running my hands over his naughty bits when nobody’s looking. And that’s just in public. It’s tequila-induced foreplay.

    It’s ironic because once we get home, I usually suffer from a terrible case of tequila twat; I can’t reach orgasm to save my life. But this time was different. I had a plan.

    A week before, I bought a clit stimulatant gel that I hoped would help me out in circumstances just like these. I wasn’t sure it would work, but figured it was worth a try.

    So, when we got home, I threw off my clothes and asked my hubs to apply the gel. Trying to be sexy, I kicked one leg up on to the bed where he sat and tipped my pelvis in his direction. He fumbled with the bottle, trying to spray it like hair spray onto my vaj. It’s a gel.

    So, I helped myself, squeezing the gel onto my finger and applying it to my clit. Then, we kissed. Fondled. Fucked. It felt amazing and I came and came and came again. Success!

    The next time you’re out drinking with your partner, you don’t have to be afraid to have one more drink. As long as you’ve got this amazing gel handy, you’re all good. So, cheers!

    Stay in Touch: Follow our blog for more humor-laced educational tidbits dedicated to helping you make your pleasure a priority.

    ______________________________________________________________

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR

    Drea B

    Drea B. is the founder of KinkyLoveToy; she is a truth teller, rule breaker and avid sexual adventurer.

    Couple kissing and engaging in foreplay

    I did it again. Last night I went tequila tasting with my husband and got pretty buzzed. The room was rocking. My chest was warm. And I felt frisky.

    It’s a cruel irony, really. I get so horny when I’m tipsy. I bombard my man with kisses. Caress every inch of his body, running my hands over his naughty bits when nobody’s looking. And that’s just in public. It’s tequila-induced foreplay.

    It’s ironic because once we get home, I usually suffer from a terrible case of tequila twat; I can’t reach orgasm to save my life. But this time was different. I had a plan.

    A week before, I bought a clit stimulatant gel that I hoped would help me out in circumstances just like these. I wasn’t sure it would work, but figured it was worth a try.

    So, when we got home, I threw off my clothes and asked my hubs to apply the gel. Trying to be sexy, I kicked one leg up on to the bed where he sat and tipped my pelvis in his direction. He fumbled with the bottle, trying to spray it like hair spray onto my vaj. It’s a gel.

    So, I helped myself, squeezing the gel onto my finger and applying it to my clit. Then, we kissed. Fondled. Fucked. It felt amazing and I came and came and came again. Success!

    The next time you’re out drinking with your partner, you don’t have to be afraid to have one more drink. As long as you’ve got this amazing gel handy, you’re all good. So, cheers!

    Stay in Touch: Follow our blog for more humor-laced educational tidbits dedicated to helping you make your pleasure a priority.

    ______________________________________________________________

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR

    Drea B

    Drea B. is the founder of KinkyLoveToy; she is a truth teller, rule breaker and avid sexual adventurer.

    Read more

  • The Real Reason for the Rise of Sacred Sex Toys The Real Reason for the Rise of Sacred Sex Toys

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    Woman in robe with bare breasts

    I believe that sensuality is the new spirituality. In other words, I believe that in order to reach a state of self-actualization, women have to make their own personal pleasure a priority. That, I believe, is what is good for a woman’s soul.

    It’s admittedly difficult to achieve this redefined level of spirituality when society and its rigid stereotypes push up against and constrain women determined to make themselves a priority. Any parts of a woman that don’t fall squarely inside the traditional cookie-cutter roles of selfless mother, blind nurturer and endless giver are labeled as unfeminine and therefore unattractive.

    Utter bullshit, I say.

    Women have needs too. Sexual needs (gasp), at that. We get horny. We want to fuck. We masturbate. We want orgasms. We have primal needs that deserve to be sated.

    But because of optics, we push down these desires. Pretend. Keep them hidden. Or, in some cases, mask them.

    Take for example, the rise of crystal sex toys made from “natural materials.” You know, dildos forged from natural crystal that purport to have healing properties…for your vaj. Completely ridiculous, unfounded claims that the molecular structure of these crystals somehow transform masturbation with a rock into a spiritual experience.

    It’s laughable. But if that’s what it takes for women to take ownership of their sexual needs, then I guess I support sticking rocks where the sun don’t shine. But ladies, you should know you don’t need some cockamamie excuse to buy a sex toy. There's no shame in owning a big, veiny dildo. You don’t have to hang it on your front door, but you shouldn’t feel uncomfortable keeping it in your nightstand just because it can’t pass for a paperweight.

    Stay in Touch: Follow our blog for more humor-laced educational tidbits dedicated to helping you make your pleasure a priority.

    ______________________________________________________________

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR

    Drea B

    Drea B. is the founder of KinkyLoveToy; she is a truth teller, rule breaker and avid sexual adventurer.

    Woman in robe with bare breasts

    I believe that sensuality is the new spirituality. In other words, I believe that in order to reach a state of self-actualization, women have to make their own personal pleasure a priority. That, I believe, is what is good for a woman’s soul.

    It’s admittedly difficult to achieve this redefined level of spirituality when society and its rigid stereotypes push up against and constrain women determined to make themselves a priority. Any parts of a woman that don’t fall squarely inside the traditional cookie-cutter roles of selfless mother, blind nurturer and endless giver are labeled as unfeminine and therefore unattractive.

    Utter bullshit, I say.

    Women have needs too. Sexual needs (gasp), at that. We get horny. We want to fuck. We masturbate. We want orgasms. We have primal needs that deserve to be sated.

    But because of optics, we push down these desires. Pretend. Keep them hidden. Or, in some cases, mask them.

    Take for example, the rise of crystal sex toys made from “natural materials.” You know, dildos forged from natural crystal that purport to have healing properties…for your vaj. Completely ridiculous, unfounded claims that the molecular structure of these crystals somehow transform masturbation with a rock into a spiritual experience.

    It’s laughable. But if that’s what it takes for women to take ownership of their sexual needs, then I guess I support sticking rocks where the sun don’t shine. But ladies, you should know you don’t need some cockamamie excuse to buy a sex toy. There's no shame in owning a big, veiny dildo. You don’t have to hang it on your front door, but you shouldn’t feel uncomfortable keeping it in your nightstand just because it can’t pass for a paperweight.

    Stay in Touch: Follow our blog for more humor-laced educational tidbits dedicated to helping you make your pleasure a priority.

    ______________________________________________________________

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR

    Drea B

    Drea B. is the founder of KinkyLoveToy; she is a truth teller, rule breaker and avid sexual adventurer.

    Read more

  • How Sexy Costumes Can Cause a Lapse in Memory How Sexy Costumes Can Cause a Lapse in Memory

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    Sexy women's legs

    At age 28, I had a boob job that increased my bra size considerably. I went from a rather loose-fitting A-cup to an overflowing C-cup. I fell in love with my new glorious tits and so did my husband of 3 years (at that time).

    One night after sex, my hubby confessed that he was still getting used to my voluptuous body, noting that at times it felt like he was cheating on me. My brows crinkled up as I looked at him quizzically, “what do you mean, cheating?”

    He explained, “Well, it’s still you…but your body is different. So, it feels like I’m having sex with someone else. I kind of like it. It feels forbidden and taboo, but in actuality it’s not. It’s the best of both worlds.”

    I didn’t anticipate that my boob job would spice things up in this way, but I liked it. And I think my hubby’s reaction is what we all feel when we role play, slip on sexy lingerie and wear seductive costumes. It’s the newness of the situation that we enjoy. The fact that we can forget—albeit briefly—that we’ve been boning our partner for years.

    It’s fun to feel naughty. It’s exciting to try on a new persona.

    I think this fact is the reason that KinkyLoveToy is always selling out of sexy costumes; they fly off the digital shelves, in all sizes. And not just during Halloween. I admit, I don’t know exactly how these costumes are being used, but I know they’re popular, and I enjoy imagining the fantasies that these costumes are helping customers bring to life.

    Drill Sergeant and Private

    This playful kit comes complete with hat, dog tags, and bullet belt. With this number, you can take charge of your partner—a lowly private who has no choice but to obey your every command. Yell. Be rough. Deprive. You. Call. All. The. Shots.

    Sexy drill sergeant costume

     

    Female Teacher and Failing Student

    This sexy kit comes with hair bows, nerd frames and a ruler to whack your failing student for falling out of line. Invite your partner to be creative and work hard for extra credit.

    Sexy teacher costume

    Naughty Nurse and Ailing Patient

    This popular costume includes a mesh teddy with peek-a-boo bra cups, attached garters and headpiece. Heartbeats will race when you check your partner's vitals in this get-up.

     

    Naught Nurse


    Stay in Touch: Follow our blog for more humor-laced educational tidbits dedicated to helping you make your pleasure a priority.

    ______________________________________________________________

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR

    Drea B

    Drea B. is the founder of KinkyLoveToy; she is a truth teller, rule breaker and avid sexual adventurer.

    Sexy women's legs

    At age 28, I had a boob job that increased my bra size considerably. I went from a rather loose-fitting A-cup to an overflowing C-cup. I fell in love with my new glorious tits and so did my husband of 3 years (at that time).

    One night after sex, my hubby confessed that he was still getting used to my voluptuous body, noting that at times it felt like he was cheating on me. My brows crinkled up as I looked at him quizzically, “what do you mean, cheating?”

    He explained, “Well, it’s still you…but your body is different. So, it feels like I’m having sex with someone else. I kind of like it. It feels forbidden and taboo, but in actuality it’s not. It’s the best of both worlds.”

    I didn’t anticipate that my boob job would spice things up in this way, but I liked it. And I think my hubby’s reaction is what we all feel when we role play, slip on sexy lingerie and wear seductive costumes. It’s the newness of the situation that we enjoy. The fact that we can forget—albeit briefly—that we’ve been boning our partner for years.

    It’s fun to feel naughty. It’s exciting to try on a new persona.

    I think this fact is the reason that KinkyLoveToy is always selling out of sexy costumes; they fly off the digital shelves, in all sizes. And not just during Halloween. I admit, I don’t know exactly how these costumes are being used, but I know they’re popular, and I enjoy imagining the fantasies that these costumes are helping customers bring to life.

    Drill Sergeant and Private

    This playful kit comes complete with hat, dog tags, and bullet belt. With this number, you can take charge of your partner—a lowly private who has no choice but to obey your every command. Yell. Be rough. Deprive. You. Call. All. The. Shots.

    Sexy drill sergeant costume

     

    Female Teacher and Failing Student

    This sexy kit comes with hair bows, nerd frames and a ruler to whack your failing student for falling out of line. Invite your partner to be creative and work hard for extra credit.

    Sexy teacher costume

    Naughty Nurse and Ailing Patient

    This popular costume includes a mesh teddy with peek-a-boo bra cups, attached garters and headpiece. Heartbeats will race when you check your partner's vitals in this get-up.

     

    Naught Nurse


    Stay in Touch: Follow our blog for more humor-laced educational tidbits dedicated to helping you make your pleasure a priority.

    ______________________________________________________________

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR

    Drea B

    Drea B. is the founder of KinkyLoveToy; she is a truth teller, rule breaker and avid sexual adventurer.

    Read more

  • How to Buy Lingerie For Your Lady How to Buy Lingerie For Your Lady

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    Woman in Lace Underwear

    Buying that special woman in your life some lingerie is always a win-win. If you get it right, she ends up feeling confident and sexy in the slinky number you purchased and you get to gaze upon her scantily clad body and feed off her seductive energy. The temptation builds and adds excitement to any bedroom. But choosing lingerie for a partner is not for the faint of heart. There are so many things to consider and an infinite amount of options. To help you out, I’ve compiled a list of issues for your consideration.


    What’s Her Personal Style?

    What does your lover wear under her clothes on an ordinary day? Is she girly? Does she like the color pink? Does she wear lace undergarments? Is she more daring in her typical attire? The point I’m getting at is that, while you want ratchet up the sexy factor with your purchase, you want to make sure that the gift you give her reflects who she is or who she wants to be in the bedroom. For example, if she’s not a fan of hot pink in her day-to-day wardrobe, it’s probably not a good idea to buy her a hot pink teddy or corset. If she’s super girly, you may want to steer clear of wet-look or leather numbers—unless of course she’s indicated that she’d like to experiment with some hardcore personas in the bedroom. If she’s on the shy side, maybe crotchless panties are something you’re going to have to work up to over time.

    What Are Her Perceived Problem Areas?

    Every woman has parts of her body that she loves and other parts that make her feel insecure. Even if you don’t agree with her assessment, it’s important to keep these things in mind when making a purchase. If your lover feels self-conscious about her midriff, buy something that covers up or camouflages a woman’s midsection like a babydoll nightie. If she loves her boobs, consider a peek-a-boo bra that lets them spill out in all their glory.

    What’s Her Size?

    Don’t guess your lover’s size. Your best bet is to simply ask your partner her size, especially because this can be a touchy subject for women. If you buy lingerie that's too small, she'll feel bad about not being able to squeeze into it. If you get her lingerie that's too big, she'll think that you see Jabba the Hutt when you look at her. If you want it to be a surprise, you can do some research by digging through her underwear drawer. What size is her bra? Her panties? This will help you select the appropriate size when you’re shopping for lingerie.


    Why Did You Make the Choice You Did?

    Once you’ve got a couple ideas in mind, consider the reason(s) for your choices. What is it about the lingerie you selected that stood out to you? Why do you think it would look good on your partner? What turns you on most about the options you chose? You should probably tell her the answers to these questions when you’re presenting your gift. Lingerie is a very personal item and it will make her feel even more special to know that you put some serious thought into the purchase.


    Stay in Touch: Follow our blog for more humor-laced educational tidbits dedicated to helping you make your pleasure a priority.
    ______________________________________________________________
    ABOUT THE AUTHOR

    Drea B

    Drea B. is the founder of KinkyLoveToy; she is a truth teller, rule breaker and avid sexual adventurer.

    Woman in Lace Underwear

    Buying that special woman in your life some lingerie is always a win-win. If you get it right, she ends up feeling confident and sexy in the slinky number you purchased and you get to gaze upon her scantily clad body and feed off her seductive energy. The temptation builds and adds excitement to any bedroom. But choosing lingerie for a partner is not for the faint of heart. There are so many things to consider and an infinite amount of options. To help you out, I’ve compiled a list of issues for your consideration.


    What’s Her Personal Style?

    What does your lover wear under her clothes on an ordinary day? Is she girly? Does she like the color pink? Does she wear lace undergarments? Is she more daring in her typical attire? The point I’m getting at is that, while you want ratchet up the sexy factor with your purchase, you want to make sure that the gift you give her reflects who she is or who she wants to be in the bedroom. For example, if she’s not a fan of hot pink in her day-to-day wardrobe, it’s probably not a good idea to buy her a hot pink teddy or corset. If she’s super girly, you may want to steer clear of wet-look or leather numbers—unless of course she’s indicated that she’d like to experiment with some hardcore personas in the bedroom. If she’s on the shy side, maybe crotchless panties are something you’re going to have to work up to over time.

    What Are Her Perceived Problem Areas?

    Every woman has parts of her body that she loves and other parts that make her feel insecure. Even if you don’t agree with her assessment, it’s important to keep these things in mind when making a purchase. If your lover feels self-conscious about her midriff, buy something that covers up or camouflages a woman’s midsection like a babydoll nightie. If she loves her boobs, consider a peek-a-boo bra that lets them spill out in all their glory.

    What’s Her Size?

    Don’t guess your lover’s size. Your best bet is to simply ask your partner her size, especially because this can be a touchy subject for women. If you buy lingerie that's too small, she'll feel bad about not being able to squeeze into it. If you get her lingerie that's too big, she'll think that you see Jabba the Hutt when you look at her. If you want it to be a surprise, you can do some research by digging through her underwear drawer. What size is her bra? Her panties? This will help you select the appropriate size when you’re shopping for lingerie.


    Why Did You Make the Choice You Did?

    Once you’ve got a couple ideas in mind, consider the reason(s) for your choices. What is it about the lingerie you selected that stood out to you? Why do you think it would look good on your partner? What turns you on most about the options you chose? You should probably tell her the answers to these questions when you’re presenting your gift. Lingerie is a very personal item and it will make her feel even more special to know that you put some serious thought into the purchase.


    Stay in Touch: Follow our blog for more humor-laced educational tidbits dedicated to helping you make your pleasure a priority.
    ______________________________________________________________
    ABOUT THE AUTHOR

    Drea B

    Drea B. is the founder of KinkyLoveToy; she is a truth teller, rule breaker and avid sexual adventurer.

    Read more

  • Discover New Depths of Your Sensuality with Lingerie Discover New Depths of Your Sensuality with Lingerie

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    Woman in Bra & Panties

    I’ve been married to my husband for almost 13 years, together for 16. We’ve got two young kids under 6. If it weren’t for my nanny, we would rarely fuck. Of course, we’d want to. We’d just be way too exhausted. Playtime. Homework. Dinner. Baths. Bedtime routines. The work is never-ending.

    So, thankfully, we have regular sex. But most days, I look like an absolute hag. No make-up. Frizzy hair. Copious amounts of eye cream. It should come as no surprise when I say that the last time I bought lingerie was probably 8 years ago, in the P.K. (pre-kids) era.

    Recently, I decided to put an end to this cycle and started shopping for lingerie. As I scrolled through my options, I smiled at the thought of my hubby’s face when I came out of the closet in something other than sweats. I wanted his eyes to bulge out of his head like a cartoon. I wanted to remind him how lucky he is to have such a hot, sexy wife.

    But it’d been a while since I rocked some lingerie. I wanted to ease into it for me and for him. Building anticipation is fun, especially when I get to hold the cards. So, I decided to buy a few things that I could reveal to him over the course of a week, starting with relatively tame options and ending with a raunchy finale.

    Monday

    Valentines Sugar & Spice Babydoll & Panty

    Lace Babydoll & Panty

    Tuesday

    Microfiber & Lace Teddy

    Microfiber & lace teddy

    Wednesday

    Tease Diana Bodysuit with Cutout Cups & Garter 

    Tease Diana Bodysuit with Cutout Cups & Garter

    Thursday

    Lace Peek A Boo Bra/Panty Set

    Lace peek a boo bra and panty set

    Friday

    Bijoux Indiscrets Burlesque Pasties

    Burlesque pasties

    Crotchless Bow Back Panty

     Crotchless bow back panty

    Needless to say, we had the best sex over the course of this week. Every night, my husband got to enjoy some serious eye candy. And I got to peel away different layers of my sensuality with every passing day. It was new, naughty and exciting.

    Now, I find ways to incorporate my lingerie into my every day looks. I like the feeling I get knowing that I’m wearing something sexy underneath a T-shirt and jeans. I can tell that I carry myself differently and people seem to respond to me in a more open and friendly way. Maybe something about my energy invites them to treat me this way. I don’t know what it is, but I eat it up. What will you discover when you put on some new lingerie?

    Stay in Touch: Follow our blog for more humor-laced educational tidbits dedicated to helping you make your pleasure a priority.

    ______________________________________________________________

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR

    Drea B

    Drea B. is the founder of KinkyLoveToy; she is a truth teller, rule breaker and avid sexual adventurer.

    Tuesday

    Microfiber & Lace Teddy

    Wednesday

    Tease Diana Bodysuit with Cutout Cups

    Thursday

    Lace Peek A Boo Bra/Panty Set

    Friday

    Bijous Indiscrets Burlesque Pasties

    Crotchless Bow Back Panty

     

    It may go without saying, but we had the best sex over the course of this week. Every night, my husband got to enjoy some serious eye candy. And I got to peel away different layers of my sensuality with every passing day. It was new, naughty and exciting.

    Now, I find ways to incorporate my lingerie into my every day looks. I like the feeling I get knowing that I’m wearing something sexy underneath a T-shirt and jeans. I can tell that I carry myself differently and people seem to respond to me in a more open and friendly way. Maybe something about my energy invites them to treat me this way. I don’t know what it is, but I eat it up.

    Stay in Touch: Follow our blog for more humor-laced educational tidbits dedicated to helping you make your pleasure a priority.

    ______________________________________________________________

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR

    Drea B. is the founder of KinkyLoveToy; she is a truth teller, rule breaker and avid sexual adventurer.

    Woman in Bra & Panties

    I’ve been married to my husband for almost 13 years, together for 16. We’ve got two young kids under 6. If it weren’t for my nanny, we would rarely fuck. Of course, we’d want to. We’d just be way too exhausted. Playtime. Homework. Dinner. Baths. Bedtime routines. The work is never-ending.

    So, thankfully, we have regular sex. But most days, I look like an absolute hag. No make-up. Frizzy hair. Copious amounts of eye cream. It should come as no surprise when I say that the last time I bought lingerie was probably 8 years ago, in the P.K. (pre-kids) era.

    Recently, I decided to put an end to this cycle and started shopping for lingerie. As I scrolled through my options, I smiled at the thought of my hubby’s face when I came out of the closet in something other than sweats. I wanted his eyes to bulge out of his head like a cartoon. I wanted to remind him how lucky he is to have such a hot, sexy wife.

    But it’d been a while since I rocked some lingerie. I wanted to ease into it for me and for him. Building anticipation is fun, especially when I get to hold the cards. So, I decided to buy a few things that I could reveal to him over the course of a week, starting with relatively tame options and ending with a raunchy finale.

    Monday

    Valentines Sugar & Spice Babydoll & Panty

    Lace Babydoll & Panty

    Tuesday

    Microfiber & Lace Teddy

    Microfiber & lace teddy

    Wednesday

    Tease Diana Bodysuit with Cutout Cups & Garter 

    Tease Diana Bodysuit with Cutout Cups & Garter

    Thursday

    Lace Peek A Boo Bra/Panty Set

    Lace peek a boo bra and panty set

    Friday

    Bijoux Indiscrets Burlesque Pasties

    Burlesque pasties

    Crotchless Bow Back Panty

     Crotchless bow back panty

    Needless to say, we had the best sex over the course of this week. Every night, my husband got to enjoy some serious eye candy. And I got to peel away different layers of my sensuality with every passing day. It was new, naughty and exciting.

    Now, I find ways to incorporate my lingerie into my every day looks. I like the feeling I get knowing that I’m wearing something sexy underneath a T-shirt and jeans. I can tell that I carry myself differently and people seem to respond to me in a more open and friendly way. Maybe something about my energy invites them to treat me this way. I don’t know what it is, but I eat it up. What will you discover when you put on some new lingerie?

    Stay in Touch: Follow our blog for more humor-laced educational tidbits dedicated to helping you make your pleasure a priority.

    ______________________________________________________________

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR

    Drea B

    Drea B. is the founder of KinkyLoveToy; she is a truth teller, rule breaker and avid sexual adventurer.

    Tuesday

    Microfiber & Lace Teddy

    Wednesday

    Tease Diana Bodysuit with Cutout Cups

    Thursday

    Lace Peek A Boo Bra/Panty Set

    Friday

    Bijous Indiscrets Burlesque Pasties

    Crotchless Bow Back Panty

     

    It may go without saying, but we had the best sex over the course of this week. Every night, my husband got to enjoy some serious eye candy. And I got to peel away different layers of my sensuality with every passing day. It was new, naughty and exciting.

    Now, I find ways to incorporate my lingerie into my every day looks. I like the feeling I get knowing that I’m wearing something sexy underneath a T-shirt and jeans. I can tell that I carry myself differently and people seem to respond to me in a more open and friendly way. Maybe something about my energy invites them to treat me this way. I don’t know what it is, but I eat it up.

    Stay in Touch: Follow our blog for more humor-laced educational tidbits dedicated to helping you make your pleasure a priority.

    ______________________________________________________________

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR

    Drea B. is the founder of KinkyLoveToy; she is a truth teller, rule breaker and avid sexual adventurer.

    Read more

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